I have realised that life is complicated but it does not need to stay complicated. Life is there to be enjoyed by all. We need to stop blaming each other but rather work together in unison to not repeat the past. Past is not passed for those that don’t want it to be. Past is past for those that want it to be the past. Both Is neither the correct no wrong. Everyone should be able to respect how one decides to move on from the past. We are forgiving human beings who can care but also maintain a distance of respect and self-respect without judging people and labelling them as Outsiders.